Saturday, January 11, 2014

Family Update


Yesterday I sent a family update via e-mail to family and friends, and since I connect with so many through blogging I thought I'd share it here as well.

Dear Family and Friends,
  
2013 was an eventful year for our family!  Our sweet little Abigail was born in April and has been a constant joy.  In July and August we went through the stressful experience of selling our house and relocating so we could be closer to Jim's employment.  He'd been commuting an hour each way for the previous two years.  We rented a house initially, then in October bought our newest home.  November was consumed in house repair because our new house needed some major work, and we finally move in the week of Thanksgiving.  It's been a whirlwind in some ways!

Jim's job here with John Deere has continued to be a huge blessing.  He enjoys his work, has a wonderful team/ manager, and the company is so good to us.  We are very grateful for such good employment.  It has been wonderful living closer to work as well.  Jim is relieved over the shorter drive, and we enjoy the extra time with him.  Jim is serving as Cub Master in our ward right now and is enjoying the chance to work with the boys.  He's never served in Cubs before so this is a new experience for him.  The other leaders tell me that he is awesome with the boys.  I can believe it; he really has a way with kids.

I have been keeping busy with the kids and home.  I'm relieved that our big house projects are finished (for now) and that we don't have another move coming up.  If I could have it my way, we'd never move again!  (Dreams do come true sometimes...)  I'm grateful for all that we've been through, though.  Our new house is a century old farm house just outside of town set on three acres and surrounded by farmland.  It's beautiful and so peaceful here.  Before we moved in, we painted the entire interior of the house, replaced all the carpet, installed a completely new HVAC system, and SCRUBBED way too many hours.  In short, the house was extremely filthy when we bought it.  Otherwise it's a great house.  Our closest neighbors have been so friendly and welcoming.  They even plowed our long driveway for us when we were snowed in (they own a snowplow company)!   I'm really enjoying our new ward here; the women have made me feel welcome and included in so many ways.  I am so grateful for them.  They have really lifted my spirits during stressful times in these short months.  I'm currently serving as the Primary pianist which is so fun because I get to watch my kids in Primary; I love playing the piano too. 

Logan, age 7, seems to be reaching a new level of awareness and ability.  He spends most of his time reading and is starting to surpass us in his understanding of certain things.  I find it really amusing when he uses new words that he's learned in his books.  One day he approached me and told me about the 'hoar frost' outside.  I knew the term, but Jim had never heard it.  The best part was that he was entirely correct!  He mixes up the meanings of the things he reads sometimes and has said some pretty funny things as a result, too!  We can always tell he's thinking, though.  He's become really enthusiastic about LEGOs this year and has pulled his younger siblings in with him.  They spend hours creating things.  For Christmas, Logan received giftcards to the LEGO store.  We took a weekend trip to Minneapolis and included that as a stop.  He used his gift money to buy white LEGOs so he could build temples.  What a kid!  Logan is such a strength to our family.  He is a hard worker and helps me a lot with his siblings and around the house.  He has a testimony and is excited to be baptized this year; he already has it all planned out even though it's months away.

Annie, age 5, always seems to be just behind her big brother, but she's super independent too.  She has taken off with reading this year, and spends hours every day in her books.  She particularly enjoys reading out loud, so Alex is usually right next to her listening.  We've also been seeing a great tendency with her to aim for perfection in the things she does.  At times that is frustrating for all of us because she gets upset when she doesn't perform as she wishes (i.e. writing, drawing, comprehending).  She also has a very quick intellect, and gets impatient easily as a result.  All this makes for a motivated and bright little girl!  She continues to show us how very feminine she is in the things she is interested and concerned with.  I asked her one day recently if she liked clothes or toys better, and her response was that she likes them equally.  She usually has a dress up dress over her clothes and loves to feel pretty.  We gave her a fancy dress for Christmas instead of a toy and she wasn't a bit disappointed.  She is a very tender and sweet little person.  She blesses our family so much with her sweet nature.

Alex is my little fireball.  At three years old he is discovering so many abilities and testing how much control he has over his world.  He is extremely stubborn and sweet at the same time.  He loves to sit on our laps, and he's usually on his teacher's lap at church.  He's so affectionate that way.  I haven't been doing anything academic with him this year, but I keep discovering that his siblings have taught him things like counting or less typical colors (he asked me for something 'peach' the other day...).  He is following our family pattern of loving books.  He actually won't sleep without at least twenty books in his bed.  Usually he has more.  He has entered the question phase too.  He asks a lot of questions, or else makes statements and follows up with, "Is that right?"  He wants to do everything that Annie and Logan do.  Thankfully they include him most of the time, but when they don't he turns into a human wrecking ball.  He is the very definition of 'rough and tumble boy'.  Alex also continues to be our family comedian.  He is so funny and has the most infectious laugh.

Abby will be nine months old on Sunday, and I can't believe it!  She is the sweetest little thing, and is so content.  All she wants is to be around people.  She'll sit on the floor and happily watch everyone or play with toys for hours.  She smiles at strangers and even lets them hold her!  I've spent so much time just enjoying her this year.  She's on the verge of crawling and I'm not sure I'm ready for that!  I love this cuddly content phase so much!  It's fun to watch her personality emerge.  She squeals and giggles when she's watching her siblings, when I turn on the bath, or when she sees that it's time to eat.  She LOVES her big brothers and sister and they love her back.  It's so neat to watch how they gently care for her and play with her.  She is just happy...all...the...time.  The only things she doesn't like are shoes and hats; she's good at removing both.  :) 
  
I hope everyone is doing well! 

Becky

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