Generosity

We've had some sweet experiences with Logan during the last couple of weeks.  The first one happened two weeks ago.  We were getting ready to go somewhere and I asked the kids to put on their tennis shoes.  Annie got hers and informed us that they hurt her feet.  It wasn't the first time she'd complained, so I went to see if I had bigger shoes for her.  Much to my surprise, not only did I not have bigger tennis shoes for her, but I actually had no shoes larger than the ones she is currently wearing.  That's not a big deal, just a first for us, so I briefly mentioned to Jim that we needed to think about getting her a few pairs of shoes soon.  That's all that was said and we weren't worried about it.  Some minutes later, Logan approached me with his piggy bank and asked me to help him open it.  I asked him why and he told me that he wanted to get his money out to buy Annie shoes because she needed them.  I didn't want to deny him an opportunity to be generous, so we opened it up for him and he started pulling money out.  By the time he decided he had enough, he'd pulled out almost $4, which was most of his life savings to date.  :)  So off to the store we went, and found two pairs (though not tennis shoes) at a great price.  Logan gave his money to the cashier himself, and Jim made up the difference.  We were so pleased with our boy that day.  (In my defense because I picked them out, those pink mary jane's are very sturdy shoes and will match most of Annie's mostly pink wardrobe.  I really do think she'll get a lot of use out of them...probably more than tennis shoes even.)

The second experience happened on a Sunday.  Jim and I were talking about a family that we'd like to do something nice for, and Logan heard us say that things were hard for them.  Logan has been telling me for weeks that he wanted to give something of his to someone in need, but at that point hadn't hit on someone who could use his toys or other things he thought of to give away.  He finally figured it out!  So, he got his piggy bank out again, and started dumping the rest of its contents.  He took the rest of his money out (about $1) and decided he wanted to give all but a few cents to the family.  He said he was keeping a few coins to help our family (but not himself).  Annie then followed his example and donated the majority of her piggy bank.  We did indeed give their donation to that family (though not quite in the same form), and once again were very pleased with our boy (and our girl).  He taught us a good lesson with these two experiences.  Our young child essentially gave all of his money to help others in need, and showed us how generous we should strive to be. 

Twue Wove, That Bwessed Awangement...

...that dweam within a dweam...

Today we get the chance to look back at the last seven years.  I can honestly say that I love him more now than I did then!  It's amazing to look at all the changes and experiences we've had in just seven years.  I can't believe how much we've grown. 

Happy Anniversary sweetheart!

Time to Move On!

I thought I'd post an update here.  After four days of thinking I could miscarry any minute, I finally did this morning.  It was 4.5 hours of labor pain.  The first couple of hours were manageable, though quite painful, and the last couple were absolutely miserable.  I never had a break from the contractions the last two hours; they went back and forth between very painful and excrutiating.  The contractions were much worse than with my first miscarriage.  Thankfully it was all over about half an hour before the kids woke up and it went as smooth as possible.  I'm glad it was relatively short, but it further confirmed to me that I never want to have a baby without an epidural!  I am in AWE of women who have natural births!  I can definitely see the advantage to being at home, though.  As compared to having a baby in the hospital, I was much more comfortable on my couch without being hooked up to an IV and other tubes. 

I am very happy with the timing of this.  It started well before Jim had to leave for work, so he was able to be here with me the whole time, and the kids didn't have to see me in pain.  Today has been a good day to be an invalid since we didn't have anything planned.  I'm feeling like if I can get enough rest today, that I'll be back to normal tomorrow.  Then we can really enjoy this holiday week!  I'm so glad to be able to move on now.     

Not So Happy News

I debate about making this post even as I write it, but at the same time I want it known since we'd so widely announced our pregnancy.  We've learned that I'm going to miscarry.  About a week ago, I woke up without nausea or exhaustion and immediately felt like something was wrong because I never feel that good during my first trimester.  I've had a strong feeling since that day that I was going to miscarry, and today we had that confirmed.  Interestingly, development stopped probably on the same day I began to feel worried.  I'm grateful that Heavenly Father prepared me for this news, and grateful that I can relax and allow things to take their course in the comfort of my own home without worry.  I've been through this before and really am not scared at all.  Now it's just a matter of waiting.  I actually feel more emotionally calm now that I have this confirmation.  I'm very disappointed.  I used to think that the more kids you had, the easier it would be to be patient for the subsequent ones.  I've learned that I'm just the opposite.  I want each one more intensely than the last and I'll admit that this miscarriage has already been more difficult than the first.  I'm a very open person, as anyone who knows me is aware of, and talking about this doesn't bother me at all.  It's not a subject to walk on eggshells about, for me anyway.  On the positive side, I have been counting my blessings this week and that has really helped.  I am very richly blessed and my life is good and full.       

Children's Museum

As one of the prizes for their summer reading program, the kids all received a pass for free admission to a nearby children's museum.  We'd heard good things about the museum, and the passes were going to expire at the new year, so we went recently.  Considering it's $7 for admission for everyone (even Alex), I'd say we had a good deal for only spending $14 to take the whole family...and we stayed for 5 hours.  We definitely got our money's worth.

There was a pretend children's hospital with ambulance.  Annie and Alex made a beeline for that first.  Oh, and before I get too deep in the pictures, I will point out that this was was one of those activities where the kids weren't at all interested in looking at me when I called their names.  Plus they were moving non-stop, so there's a lot of blur.  In the ambulance...

Logan headed to the pretend grocery store first, and after a few minutes the rest of us joined him.

Annie had the amazing bottomless pit cart!  She made good choices, though; that's a LOT of fruit and vegetables, plus a turkey on the bottom.

Logan was meticulous with what he put in his cart.  He and Jim went through adding up the costs and being aware of how much play money Logan had to spend.

Jim rang up the kids.  I loved it.

Next we headed back over to the pretend children's hospital.  Logan and Annie were very much into taking care of the newborn babies.  (That's their favorite pretend right now that I'm pregnant.)  Here Annie was being so cute trying to put a diaper on the baby.

After dragging the kids away from the hospital (with a promise to return) we found a room with various cool tracks.  There were some golfball roller coasters, a train table, and this pinewood derby track.  The kids were even able to assemble and take apart the cars.  Surprisingly, Annie spent a VERY long time working on the cars while her brothers went from activity to activity.

Our next stop was the aerospace room.  Logan couldn't wait to get up in the big plane and try on the goggles.

Jim and Logan did their flight simulator.  (Annie did it later with Jim.)  That was quite lengthy, but I stayed in there with the other kids the whole time.  It was a rather large area and I even lost a kid once or twice...  Actually, that happened several times throughout the day.  I'm glad it wasn't extremely crowded.

Alex really liked these little planes.

We then visited the Lego room, farm room, pretend pizza parlour, and the music room.  I didn't think to take any pictures, but the kids really enjoyed those rooms too.  We made a short visit to the drama room, and the kids wouldn't LET me take pictures.  They were too busy trying on costumes.  This is the only quick poor shot I took.

And the LAST room.  It was an art room with all sorts of supplies available.  We painted, glued, cut, colored, etc...  Considering we'd been there for HOURS by this time, I was really surprised how much attention they gave their art in here.  I had to peel them away.

We allowed the kids to briefly visit their favorite two rooms one final time: the track room and the hospital.  Alex was being really cute hauling around one of those baby dolls that were half his size.

One final stop at the bathroom, and we were DONE.  If we lived closer, I'd almost consider getting one of their memberships.  I'm pretty sure my kids could have played in any one of those rooms for hours.  I really enjoyed watching their creative play; it was a nice family outing.